Simply because we are not happy with our other half. Our loving relationship is just like a roller coaster ride, sometimes we are up, and sometimes we are down. When we are up on top, we are happy, sweet, romantic, and full of promises. When we are down, we feel depress, angry, lose control, yelling at each other and reprisal by nasty words or deeds, to hurt the other half. That is the most dangerous time where we might have an affair with someone else, although you may still be deeply in love with your other partner.
We always hope a relationship will last for life, but because we still carry our social intercourse with other people, there is a possibility that we will meet someone attractive or seductive during our life span. We may have better control resisting the sexual attraction while we are on top, but when we are down, with less self-control, we are most likely to fail. Sometimes this is just a way of revenge, or proving we are still attractive, but this type of behavior could be fatal. Most people set a deadline to their relationship, one affair will surpass the deadline and end the relationship right away, and they won't accept any explanation, apology or give them another chance.
Our technology is breaking new ground everyday; each technology may have failed a thousand times, before something useful is found. Rome wasn't built in one day, and there is many roads lead to Rome. Roads sometimes are rocky, bumpy and full of traps. Either of you may be blocked by obstacles, confused by temptation, or caught by a trap. Should the other one give your falling mate a hand, to walk through the obstacles together, to bear your crosses, to learn from mistakes and be smarter and better next time, or just leave him or her inside the trap after one fall, and then walk your own path. There is a Chinese idiom; mistake is the mother of success. To be a success in anything, anyone must have passed through a lot of failings and obstacles. Find out the reason of each fall and ways to go through the obstacles next time, patiently and constantly. Hand holding hand, heart linking heart, heading to the direction of a successful marriage and everlasting love.
We are now living in the new millenium, and should have thinking of the new age. We can see the world is joining together, the European has successfully form the EU, and different countries or corporations are learning to combine into bigger forces. The majority of our civilized countries are learning and rectifying from past mistakes, feuds and stupid wars, then how can our marriages swim against the current? It may not be easy to find out the right causes of each mistake, it may not be easy to rectify a past error, but we shouldn't let anything get us down. This homepage will provide you all the information to lift your relationship, I will be helping you two to go through all the obstacles and traps, and leading you two to eternal love and everlasting marriage.