Although the world has moved a big step forward, there are still a lot of discrimination in women right, salary and jobs. A lot of the less developed and conservative countries are still oppressing females and feminism, limiting their freedom in what they wear, speech, education and work.
Discrimination is part of our human nature and is caused by many different reasons. First, we like to make comparison among different people; we like to compare our merits with other demerits, this is a sign of ego and conceit. Second, we are discriminating ourselves for having less than other people have; this is a sign of inferiority. Third, we are discriminating against someone who has poor attitude, rudeness and poor manner; this is a sign of righteousness. Fourth, some people think light skin color is better than dark skin color, men are better than women are, and these are signs of pride and prejudice. Fifth, race is discriminating against other races, religion is discriminating against other religions, and these are signs of selfishness, self-center, hate and evil.
Every religion was built from love, peace and forgiving. Each bible came from the hands of the holy men, or the great apostles, written with wisdom, and enlightenment of the universe, creator and mankind. Every rule and teaching is to amend our demerits and refine our personality, there shouldn't be any pride, prejudice, brutality and conceit. What are causing all the disputes are our heart, stubbornness, conceit and the way we interpreted different bibles? Our selfishness tells us we are the best and the only true religion, and the rest are all evil. Our criticism is triggering rebellion and anger, our preaching becomes betraying, and our wishes for getting more support and acknowledgement earns more hate and revenge. An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, revenge, wars, killing and riot are only delighting the devil and upsetting our Lord(s). When can we give up our anger and feuds, and start accepting each other and holding hands together?
Almost every bible has said, "I am the only God", "I am the one and only one", "Do not bow down to any idol or worship it", etc. I totally agreed with these, but my angle and point of view are slightly different. The reasons why Jesus Christ, Buddha, Mohammed, Confucius and Lao-Zi established their religions were to teach us their enlightenment, the rules of the universe, philosophy, self-improvement and self-introspection. But we don't follow them as teachers, we only follow their magical power, to protect us and fulfil our wishes.
We always pray for good health, wealth, fortune, peace on earth and trouble-free. We want our life cozy and comfortable, without any difficulty, accident, pain and dispute to train our spirit and lift our personality. Religions become a place for protection and a place to meet new friends. We only follow those easy rules, to go to church or confess to the priests again and again about the same sins every week. We never really follow their paths, correcting our demerits, forgiving others, and love your enemies.
If we are following them as teachers, then following either or all of them really make no difference. We can learn the thinking "Not ashamed to ask", and "Everyone can teach" from Confucius, love and forgive from Jesus Christ, ecological balance and cycle of the whole universe from Buddha, the spirit of sacrifice from Mohammed, and the yin, yang and eight diagrams from Taoism. Isn't today's science based on and proving these theories?
The true meaning of "Do not bow down to any idol or worship it", indicating that we should switch from wishing to learning, from asking to paying, from seeking protection to taking challenge, from laziness to enthusiasm, from demerits to merits. I am writing this homepage to change your destiny and future by rectifying your own demerits and temper with your own hand and the support of your family, rather than praying to the Lord or casting horoscope or divination.
This is not a religious homepage, and I am not trying to sell the belief of any religion. If you are in one of the major religions, congratulation, you are on the right track already, and you don't need to go anywhere else, all you need to do is to amend your selfish, superstitious and biased point of views and attitude toward your religion, Gods or other religions.
In this entire homepage, I am teaching everyone the correct way of enlightenment by correcting yourself. Therefore, you cannot reap without sowing, and you cannot buy love or change destiny with money alone. I am teaching you the hard way to true happiness, and not the easy way to deceive yourself as well as others.
Being in the wrong religions could be fatal, it may not only affect your marriage, family and human relationship, and it may even cost your life. If anyone wants spiritual relief, I suggest you should go back to the well-organized major religions with thousand of years of history and achievement backing up.
Men are being selfish in different degree. They don't want to give up their ancient or out-dated privileges on top of women and continuous their domination in leadership and decision making. The reasons why we are so successful in technology are because part of the human mankind has learned and enlightened from the importance of human right and equality, giving everyone the right and freedom to express their thinking and innovation. A lot of American immigrants told me the biggest difference they found between their homelands and America was, American would give them support and encouragement to their new ideas, telling them trying was the best way to prove their ideas, instead of discouraging or turning them down.
Both men and women have their own angles, point of views and acknowledgement. Sometimes what they are doing shouldn't be consider as right or wrong, it should be considered, as whether they are using the best method, to strike while the iron is hot. The best method should have points or values to please both sides, to strike a happy medium, to fulfil the needs of both sides, and to make both sides equally happy.
There are many different methods to handle each crisis; different methods have different functions and consequence to handle different cases. Actually temper is also one practical method to handle problems, but however we misuse it too often, which make it lose its original striking power and become annoying.
In our ecological balance and cycle of the nature, every species of living thing has a subtle relationship in mutual promotion and restraint. Every living species from the largest to the microscopic, all have its own natural enemies or environment to restrain its growth, number and movement, and each living species must have its own food sources, substances and environment to promote its growth, number and movement.
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These are the same theory as the ancient Chinese Taoist "Eight diagrams", each pair of opposite diagrams are in mutual promotion and restraint. The eight diagrams are MMM, MMF, MFM, FMM, FFM, FMF, MFF and FFF. (M is masculinity and F is femininity) For example, masculinity can restrain femininity, but femininity in a different situation or angle can also restrain masculinity, masculinity can promote femininity, and femininity can also promote masculinity. Therefore, MMM is the opposite of FFF, MMF is the opposite of FMM, MFM is the opposite of FMF, and FFM is the opposite of MFF.
To be successful in two-sex intercourse, you need to learn their angles and point of views, to find out how much masculinity and femininity they have. To find out why they are thinking these ways and what they will benefit from their thinking and to know which sides your bread and their breads are buttered on.
If a person is very hard on you, then you need to soften him or her with your gentle and softness. If a person is coward and mushy, you need to strengthen his or her heart to promote bravery and confidence with encouragement in a strong determined manner and voice. If a person is doing two things wrong and one thing right, then you should criticize the two errors but praise the correct one to balance his or her heart, which is using MMF to restrain FMM.
What we are doing most often are using MMM on all other seven types of occasions. No matter how much correct or incorrect inside their suggestion, we will only say, "No, you are all wrong, I disagree everything". Our abilities of analysis and ration are totally blocked by our past conflicts, hate, revenge and prejudice; we are aiming at the person instead of aiming at the occasion. We are revenging each other with the same attitude, turning down each other's suggestion, and pushing your once happy relationship down in the dump.
Every time I face a dispute or argument, I will first examine my attitude, my manner of speaking, my angles and point of views, and then I will try to look at things from their angles and point of views, to locate our stubbornness and the essential of the matters. If they are very certain and hard about certain parts, I will tend to agree on their strong points, and switch direction in attacking their weak points or uncertainties. These parts of the agreement will also become my trump card, if they are turning down all of my points, I will start wondering how come I can agree on their good points, but they can not find any acknowledgement on any of my points. This is one way to enlighten them about their stubbornness, pride and prejudice, and showing them how to use ration and intelligence to deal with dispute and dissolve a crisis.